Tara Tresslar, APC, NCC

She/her/hers

Currently serving clients in Georgia

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Hey there, Iโ€™m Tara!
We all carry stories, some visible, some quietly tucked away. Life can throw sudden changes, invisible struggles, or seasons of overwhelm. It gets messy. It gets exhausting. I know how hard it can be to keep going when no one can see all that youโ€™re carrying. Healing isnโ€™t about having it all figured out, itโ€™s about understanding your story, finding tools that actually work, and creating balance that feels right for you.

I have experience supporting people through anxiety, depression, relationship stress, and lifeโ€™s curveballs. I work with partners and individuals from all backgrounds and identities, including 2SLGBTQIA+ folks, military spouses, and veterans, offering a space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported!

Outside the office, you can find me planning my next tattoo, singing way too loudly, or laughing at funny cat videos! I believe therapy doesnโ€™t have to be all serious faces and stiff chairs. Openness, curiosity, and even a little humor can go a long way in the healing process!

If youโ€™re looking for a nonjudgmental, safe space to process whateverโ€™s on your mind, without the stuffy-office vibes, youโ€™re in the right place! This is your space to let go and breathe easier. To go at your own pace. To be accepted exactly as you are. 

  • Therapy with me is about pressing pause, tuning into whatโ€™s going on beneath the surface, and giving yourself some room to breathe. You might be here because:

    • You feel like youโ€™re in overdrive or juggling a million tabs 

    • Youโ€™re burned out or feeling numbโ€”like youโ€™ve lost your spark

    • Youโ€™re grieving a loss or navigating a major life change

    • Your relationship is under stress, and you want support to reconnect or heal

    • Youโ€™ve been lugging around emotions like a backpack full of bricks and are overdue for setting it down

    • Youโ€™re a military spouse trying to find balance and support through transitions or isolation

  • Therapy with me is relaxed, collaborative, and all about what works for you! No pressure to have it all together, no need to filter your words, and definitely no stuffy therapist vibes. Iโ€™ll show up as my real self, flaws, quirks, and all, and create space for you to do the same.

    I use a person-centered approach, blending tools from CBT, DBT, and Gottman methods depending on your needs. Together, weโ€™ll build practical ways to handle lifeโ€™s stress, strengthen your relationships, and reconnect with your spark, with a few laughs along the way!

  • 2025:

    Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Training Level 1 (CCTP):

    Working with the Neurobiological Legacy of Trauma

    Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Training Level 2 (CCTP-II):

    Treatment of Complex Trauma and Dissociative Disorders

    2024:

    Grief Counseling and Treatment Certification Training: Assessments and Interventions to Support Healthy Grieving and Adaptation to Death and Loss

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Are you and your partner(s) arguing more than connecting? Do small disagreements snowball into big fights? Maybe youโ€™re feeling unseen, misunderstood, or like the spark has dimmed. If trust has been broken, you might be wondering if itโ€™s even possible to find your way back to each other.

If youโ€™re stuck in the same painful patterns or just going through the motions, Iโ€™m here to help you reconnect! Every relationship faces challenges but with the right support, you can rebuild trust, improve communication, and start enjoying each other again.

As a visual thinker, I love using Gottmanโ€™s Sound Relationship House to help partners spot the cracks in their foundationโ€”those overlooked areas where resentment builds or needs go unmet. Weโ€™ll work together to understand whatโ€™s not working, repair old wounds, and rebuild something stronger.

You donโ€™t have to stay stuck. With compassion and practical tools, Iโ€™ll help you break the cycle and create more secure, fulfilling relationships rooted in trust, emotional safety, and real connection.

Couples + Relationship Support

2SLGBTQIA+ and Poly Affirming

Life can get overwhelming fast! Between juggling responsibilities, showing up for others, and just trying to hold it together, itโ€™s easy to put your own needs last. And before you know it, youโ€™re running on fumes, wondering when youโ€™re supposed to catch your breath.

Anxiety, depression, and burnout are human responses to chronic stress and often just signs that youโ€™ve been carrying too much for too long. What you might need is space to slow down, sort through the noise, and feel what youโ€™re feeling without being judged or rushed.

In therapy, weโ€™ll explore whatโ€™s weighing on you and figure out ways to make things more manageable without adding more pressure. Whether youโ€™re navigating big emotions or just feeling kind of stuck, I focus on things like emotional regulation, self-compassion, and tuning back in to what you need.

When Life Feels like Too Much

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Deployments, frequent moves, and holding down the fort alone can feel overwhelmingโ€”especially when your support system is scattered or left behind at your last duty station. As a fellow military spouse, I totally get the challenge of learning a whole new area while rebuilding your support system from scratch. It can feel like starting over again and again, and somehow taking care of yourself in the middle of all that? Not easy.

Military life can bring a unique kind of stressโ€”one thatโ€™s hard to explain to people outside this world. Maybe you're feeling isolated, disconnected from your partner, or unsure of your own identity beyond the roles youโ€™re filling. 

Together weโ€™ll tackle PCS stress, identity shifts, parenting overload, relationship strain, and carve out time for you. You deserve steadiness, community and a space for your own needs during this chapter of your life!

Military Spouses and Parents

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Trauma can weave its way through your body and mind, shaping how you see yourself, how safe you feel, and how you move through the world. It can make the simplest things like trust, rest, and connection feel just out of reach. 

In our sessions, we create space that feels safe enough to explore your experiences without rushing or forcing anything. Weโ€™ll use grounding tools to help you stay present, and weโ€™ll work with approaches that meet you where you are, not where anyone else thinks you should be.

I specialize in trauma-informed care because I believe healing happens best in a space that feels safe, supportive, and empowering. I understand how trauma can affect every part of life including our sense of self, our relationships, and how we move through the world. In our work together, weโ€™ll go at a pace that feels right for you, using grounding tools, gentle exploration, and evidence-based approaches. My goal is to help you reconnect with your strengths, rebuild a sense of safety, and move forward with more confidence and self-compassion.

Trauma Informed Care

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Centered on You: Therapy That Honors Your Story

One thing to know about working with me: you set the tone. Our sessions arenโ€™t about me telling you what to do or trying to fix things. Instead, itโ€™s about holding a space where you can be exactly as you are, even if itโ€™s hard to put your story into words.

Iโ€™ve been there myself, shutting down, masking the pain, easily triggered and slipping into those dark places that feel impossible to escape. I get how tough it can be, and I know how important it is to just have someone listen and understand. My job is simply to be here with you, without judgment, as you navigate whatever brought you in.

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My Specialties

  • At the heart of my approach is youโ€”your experiences, your emotions, and your unique journey. I believe you are the expert on your own life, and my role is to provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel truly seen and heard.

    With unconditional positive regard, empathy, and genuine support, I meet you where you are, helping you explore your thoughts and emotions at your own pace. Thereโ€™s no pressure, no โ€œone-size-fits-allโ€ approachโ€”just a collaborative, compassionate process focused on your growth, healing, and self-discovery.

  • You deserve a space where you can show up as your full, authentic selfโ€”without fear, judgment, or the need to explain who you are. My approach to therapy is fully affirming, inclusive, and rooted in respect for your identity, experiences, and journey.

    Whether youโ€™re exploring your identity, navigating relationships, facing discrimination, or just needing a space where you feel truly seen, Iโ€™m here to support you. I provide a safe, validating environment where you can process, heal, and grow at your own pace. You are worthy of care, respect, and joy exactly as you are, and Iโ€™m honored to walk alongside you on this journey.

  • I welcome and affirm clients in polyamorous, open, ethically non-monogamous, and other consensual non-traditional relationship structures. I know these relationships can bring incredible connection and joy, but also their own set of challenges. Too often, therapy spaces overlook or misunderstand these relationship types, leaving people feeling judged or misunderstood. Together, we can explore communication, boundaries, or life transitions in ways that honor your values, autonomy, and the connections that matter most to you.

    In our work together, you can expect a space free from judgment, assumptions, or the need to educate me about your relationship structure(s). My goal is to create a safe, affirming space where your relationships can thrive and you can feel truly seen!

  • You deserve to be heard, respected, and in control of your own story. I focus on helping you reclaim your autonomy, set healthy boundaries, and advocate for yourself in ways that feel safe and authentic. Whether youโ€™re navigating difficult relationships, systemic barriers, or self-doubt, I provide a supportive space to challenge limiting beliefs and build self-trust.

    As an affirming, culturally inclusive therapist, I donโ€™t just listenโ€”I help you step into your power. You are capable, worthy, and stronger than you know, and Iโ€™m here to help you see that too.

  • Relationships take work, and sometimes, even the strongest couples need help finding their way back to connection, trust, and understanding. Using Gottman-informed techniques, I help couples strengthen their bond by improving communication, deepening intimacy, and navigating conflict in a healthier way.

    Together, weโ€™ll focus on building friendship, enhancing emotional connection, and creating shared meaning in your relationship. Whether youโ€™re struggling with recurring arguments, feeling disconnected, or simply want to strengthen your partnership, I provide a supportive space where both of you feel heard and valued.

    You donโ€™t have to figure it all out aloneโ€”Iโ€™m here to guide you with practical tools and insights so you can repair, reconnect, and build a relationship that feels fulfilling and secure.

  • Our thoughts have a powerful impact on how we feel and navigate the world. If youโ€™re struggling with anxiety, depression, or self-doubt, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help you identify and challenge unhelpful thought patterns that keep you stuck.

    In our work together, weโ€™ll explore how your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are connected. Iโ€™ll help you recognize negative thought loops, reframe self-defeating beliefs, and develop practical coping strategies to manage stress and emotional overwhelm. My approach is collaborative and supportiveโ€”I wonโ€™t just hand you a list of coping skills; weโ€™ll work together to find what truly helps you feel more in control and at peace.

    Change doesnโ€™t happen overnight, but with small, intentional shifts, you can start to see real progress. You are not your thoughts, and you are capable of rewriting the narrative. Iโ€™m here to help you do just that.

  • I know that trauma can make the world feel unsafe, relationships feel complicated, and emotions feel overwhelming. Thatโ€™s why my approach is gentle, compassionate, and always led by your comfort and needs. You are in control of your healing, and Iโ€™m here to support youโ€”never to push or rush the process.

    With trauma-informed care, I create a space where you feel safe, heard, and empowered. Weโ€™ll move at a pace that feels right for you, using approaches like mindfulness, grounding techniques, and body awareness to help you regulate emotions and reconnect with yourself. If and when youโ€™re ready, we can gently explore past wounds, not to relive them, but to help you process, heal, and regain a sense of safety and control.

    Your trauma does not define you. You deserve healing, and Iโ€™m here to help you find itโ€”in a way that feels safe, validating, and empowering.

  • Struggling against your thoughts and emotions can feel exhaustingโ€”like youโ€™re fighting a battle you canโ€™t win. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps you break free from that struggle by learning to accept whatโ€™s outside of your control and take meaningful action toward what truly matters to you.

    In our work together, weโ€™ll focus on mindfulness, self-compassion, and values-based living. Instead of getting stuck in negative thoughts or emotions, Iโ€™ll help you learn how to acknowledge them without letting them define you. Weโ€™ll practice techniques to create distance from unhelpful thoughts, so they no longer have power over your choices.

    This is about more than just copingโ€”itโ€™s about embracing your full, authentic self and taking steps toward a life that aligns with your values. You donโ€™t have to be โ€œperfectโ€ to move forward. You just have to be willing to take that first step, and Iโ€™m here to walk with you.

  • The stories we tell ourselves shape how we see the world, our relationships, and our own self-worth. Sometimes, those stories come from past experiences, societal expectations, or the words of othersโ€”and they donโ€™t always serve us. Narrative therapy helps you step back, challenge those old narratives, and rewrite your story in a way that reflects your resilience, values, and truth.

    In our work together, Iโ€™ll help you separate yourself from the problem and explore the bigger picture of your experiences. Weโ€™ll identify the themes in your story, challenge limiting beliefs, and highlight your strengths, growth, and the choices you have moving forward. You are not defined by your past or by what has happened to youโ€”you have the power to reclaim your story and shape it in a way that empowers you.

    Your voice matters. Your story matters. And together, weโ€™ll work toward a version that feels authentic, hopeful, and true to who you areโ€”not just who the world has told you to be.

  • Grief is messy, unpredictable, and deeply personalโ€”thereโ€™s no โ€œrightโ€ way to go through it. Whether youโ€™re mourning a loved one, a relationship, a life transition, or even a version of yourself youโ€™ve lost, your pain is real, and it deserves space to be felt and processed.

    In grief therapy, I provide a safe, compassionate space where you can express your emotions without judgment or pressure to โ€œmove on.โ€ Together, weโ€™ll explore what your loss means to you, navigate the waves of grief, and find ways to honor both your pain and your healing. This isnโ€™t about forgetting or forcing closureโ€”itโ€™s about learning to carry your grief in a way that allows you to keep moving forward while still holding love for what was.

    You donโ€™t have to go through this alone. Iโ€™m here to walk alongside you, offering support, understanding, and gentle guidance as you find your way through the lossโ€”at your own pace, in your own way.

  • Life can feel overwhelming when your mind is constantly racingโ€”rehashing the past, worrying about the future, or feeling stuck in negative thought loops. Mindfulness-based therapy helps you slow down, reconnect with yourself, and find peace in the present moment.

    In our work together, weโ€™ll focus on practical mindfulness techniques like deep breathing, grounding exercises, and self-compassion practices to help you manage stress, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm. This isnโ€™t about โ€œclearing your mindโ€ or forcing yourself to feel calmโ€”itโ€™s about learning to notice your thoughts and emotions without letting them take over.

    Through mindfulness, Iโ€™ll help you cultivate greater self-awareness, emotional balance, and a sense of inner calmโ€”so you can respond to lifeโ€™s challenges with more clarity and self-compassion. You donโ€™t have to have it all figured out; you just have to start where you are. And Iโ€™ll be right there with you.

  • Emotions can feel like a stormโ€”sometimes calm, sometimes overwhelming, and at times completely out of control. If you find yourself getting stuck in emotional highs and lows, feeling reactive, or struggling to manage stress, youโ€™re not alone. Emotional regulation isnโ€™t about suppressing feelingsโ€”itโ€™s about learning how to understand, process, and respond to them in a way that serves you.

    Together, weโ€™ll explore what triggers your emotional responses and work on practical strategies to help you navigate them with more balance. This might include grounding techniques, mindfulness, breathwork, cognitive reframing, and self-soothing skillsโ€”all tailored to what works best for you.

    The goal isnโ€™t to avoid emotions, but to build the skills to ride the waves rather than feeling like youโ€™re drowning in them. You have the ability to find calm in the chaos, and Iโ€™m here to help you get there.

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My approach and what a session with me looks like:

Itโ€™s important for me to create a safe, supportive and inclusive environment that respects your background, identity, and unique perspectives. I want you to feel heard and understood, and therefore I take an empathic approach to ensure you that I truly care about your concerns and experiences. While always supportive, I do like to challenge when necessary, which helps confront difficult truths or behaviors to foster growth and lasting change. I like to keep it real and also be real! I will be the first to say I am not perfect and I do not have all of the answers! Itโ€™s truly a pleasure to connect with clients by recognizing that weโ€™re all human, constantly learning and growing. Weโ€™re all a work in progress, and Iโ€™m right here with you on that journey!

I like to take an eclectic approach to therapy, meaning I tailor each session to your unique needs by drawing from various techniques and theories. If you just need to vent, Iโ€™m here to listen. If youโ€™re looking for guidance, I can offer insight. If interactive activities help you process things better, Iโ€™ve got those too. Whatever you need to move forward, Iโ€™ll do my best to support you on that journey!

With a background in health coaching and wellness, my perspective has evolved over time. I donโ€™t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. We donโ€™t have to fit into societal standards or compare ourselves to people who seem to have it all together. Thereโ€™s something incredibly freeing about embracing who we are, loving ourselves as we are, and living life in a way that feels right for us. And Iโ€™m here to help you achieve that!


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Open Path

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BCBS

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Direct supervision under:

Kari Viola-Brooke, LPC, CPCS

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Lauren St John, LPC, ATR, NCC, ASDCS

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